Sunday, September 6, 2009

Complaint Department

As a mother, there are times when I am giving my children directions, or "having a talk" w/ them, that I hear words come out of my mouth and go "Hmm." Today was one of those "Hmm" moments. All week, we have been dealing w/ excessive grumbling among our kids. I was telling whomever was griping that it would make me so much happier, if they would simply follow instructions, w/out complaining. That's when the "Hmm" moment occurred. This past month, week, day, has had more than it's share of complaining, and grumbling from me. Be it about the girls' school, homework, bills, kids, myself, the weather, time constraints, household duties, etc., I've noticed that I've been quite vocal in what I don't like/want. But I haven't even began to scratch the surface in being vocal about my praise and thanksgiving. How humbling, to look back over the last several weeks, and realize that God must have felt the same way about my griping, as I was about my kids' griping. So, today, I ask you to forgive me, if in this past month, I have come to you, grumbling about something. I want my words of thanks to far outnumber my words of discontent.


So, here is a blessing that I would like to share w/ you:
My two "little" brothers! They are the two biggest cut-ups I know! God knew that I was way to serious of a person - so, in His infinite wisdom, He chose to teach me to "lighten up"! Being separated from both of them is very tough! Jeremy and I are only 18mths or so apart, so we are used to always being close to each other. CJ and I share a very special bond because I became his second mother (there are 16 years between us). When I am home, the two of them tease me mercilessly! But my world would be so void w/out them and their teasing! Jeremy, CJ - I thank God for each of you. You may tickle me until I cry - but w/ Dave's help, I can return the torture!!!


My verse for this week:
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation.

Philippians 2:14-15 NIV








2 comments:

Jalyn said...

I knew they had a feminine side to them. You all look so special. Love the head accessories. Love you and am proud to call you all family.

Tanjala said...

Such sweet innocent children you are!!
Thanks for the update and lesson you gave all of us. I know that complain sometimes WAY to much, and forget that God is in control if we only bring out "complaints"/problems to him.

Love you all and miss you. We would love to see you this fall.